Posts Tagged ‘travel’
Fleet Week: Thing #2 I Will Miss About San Francisco!
Posted in Orvieto, San Francisco, Travel, tagged Blue Angels, fighter pilots, Fleet Week, Golden Gate Bridge, sonic boom, travel, United Airlines, wild blue yonder on October 7, 2012 | 5 Comments »
On Italian Time
Posted in Americans Abroad, Expat in Italy, Living abroad, Living in Europe, Living in Italy, Orvieto, Travel, tagged duration calculator, Italian time, orvieto italy, space time continuum, travel, When Harry Met Sally on September 2, 2012 | 13 Comments »
60 days, 8 weeks, 1440 hours, 86,400 minutes and 5,184,000 seconds…
Everyday I obsessively enter my impending departure date into a duration calculator, but strangely the “days remaining until I arrive in Italy” number never seems to decrease. Time is not just dragging, it has come to a screeching halt and I’ve begun to wonder if my new life in Orvieto will ever begin? I fear I could be trapped in some kind of weird vortex or bizarre Italian space-time continuum!
Harry’s touching sentiment in the film, When Harry Met Sally echoes my own:
“…when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone (or, in my case, somewhere), you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”
Unfortunately like a pot, a watched country never boils.
by Toni DeBella
A Lame Duck American
Posted in Americans Abroad, Expat in Italy, Italy, Living abroad, Living in Italy, Orvieto, Travel, tagged travel on August 14, 2012 | 10 Comments »
There is a mind-set you adopt when you are about to move far, far away. You become a short-timer; drawing an arbitrary line in the sand – a sort of invisible cut-off date after which you won’t be forming any new relationships. Now when I meet someone I’m tempted to say, “Hi, my name is Toni and you can’t get attached to me.” I’ve put into place a “friend moratorium” because I just can’t like any more people – it hurts too much to leave them.
A perfect example is Reggie. I met her just under the wire at a Starbucks on Union Street about a month ago. She is hysterically funny, super-smart and very cool. Now I am going to miss her, damn it!
When it Rains, it Pours…
Wouldn’t you know it? The other day on the ferry a handsome man smiled at me PAST THE DEADLINE!
I was thinking…perhaps some rules are meant to be broken?
by Toni DeBella
deYoung Museum: Thing #1 I Will Miss About San Francisco – International Art and Exhibitions
Posted in Italy, Orvieto, San Francisco, tagged beauty, DeYoung Museum, fashion, Golden Gate Park, Jean Paul Gaultier, Madonna, Orvieto, orvieto italy, San Francisco, style, travel on August 5, 2012 | 11 Comments »
Leaving San Francisco isn’t going to be easy. I love this city and will miss everything about it. I remember the first day I moved here. I stepped out onto the stoop of my apartment building, looked around and decided there was nowhere in the world I would rather be…then I found Orvieto. Italy. In the next three months I am going to enjoy every single minute of my life here, appreciate all the things San Francisco and Marin County have to offer, and say good-bye with no regrets…
….Goodbye deYoung Museum.
August 4, 2012: Jean Paul Gaultier at the deYoung Museum, Golden Gate Park
I exited the Jean Paul Gaultier Exhibition at the DeYoung Museum today flabbergasted. I am shattered by Gaultier’s genius. I’ve never seen clothes so beautiful, expressions so unfiltered, gowns so outrageously sublime, outfits so over-the-top delightful. Each one was lovely and funny and smart and more incredible than the next. His masterpieces are astonishing. I wonder if Jean Paul Gaultier knows how brilliant he is? I think so.

Madonna and his iconic bustier
by Toni DeBella
WANTED IN ROME
Posted in Expat in Italy, Italy, Living in Italy, Orvieto, Rome, Travel, Umbria, tagged bachelor of science degree, English teacher, freelance travel writer, looking for work in Italy, olive oil sales, relocation coordinator, travel, Wanted in Rome on July 16, 2012 | 23 Comments »
LOOKING FOR WORK IN ITALY:
Background and Education:
University Bachelor of Science Degree in Human Performance (Physical Education – don’t get any funny ideas), Graduate Degree from School of Hard Knocks.
Prior Work Experience:
Freelance Legal/Executive Administrative Assistant (yeah, Secretary), Single Mom (yes, it’s a “real” job), Mural/Faux Finishing business owner since 1991, Government Affairs Regulatory Assistant (really), Commercial/Television Actress (yes, really).
Recent Work Experience:
Blogger, Freelance Travel Writer, Copywriter, Editor (knows the difference between favorite and favourite), TEFL Certified English Teacher (who isn’t?), Personal Assistant, Olive Oil Sales Rep, Relocation Coordinator, Vacation Concierge, Video Travel Host, and International Pet Escort.
Hobbies and Interests:
Italy. Available Immediately.
by Toni DeBella
Bougainvillea Birthday
Posted in Expat in Italy, Italy, Orvieto, Travel, Umbria, tagged 1988, Bougainvillea, Green Street San Francisco, home, little twig, nature, plants, travel on July 6, 2012 | 14 Comments »
It was July of 1988, and in commemoration of the birth of my son, I planted a small fuchsia Bougainvillea in a planter just under our front window. The vine was scrawny and spindly, and the few flowers it had fell off, leaving only a sad green twig in the ground. I was so worried that this Bougainvillea would be too weak to make it through the winter. Shortly thereafter we relocated across town, leaving the Bougainvillea behind to fend for itself.
Last week, on my way to meet a friend for lunch, I unexpectedly found myself walking in the old neighborhood and came upon our flat on Green Street. I was surprised to see that the exterior of the apartment hadn’t really changed all that much over the years… except for one thing…the luscious, huge Bougainvillea climbing up the side of the building! Amazingly, almost a quarter of a century later, this plant not only survived, it flourished!
Today marks the anniversary of the day, twenty-four years ago, when my son came into the world and when that little twig of a Bougainvillea took root and started to grow. 1988: It was a very good year for little boys and Bougainvillea.
Auguri, Andrew Quincy Todd!
by Toni DeBella
Forza Azzurri…
Posted in Expat in Italy, Italian Soccer, Italians, Italy, tagged European soccer championships, Forza Azzurri, Italian Soccer, Italy vs. Spain, Sausalito, travel on July 1, 2012 | 5 Comments »
…is the battle cry of Italians everywhere.
I used to love American baseball, but I’ve changed alliances. I’ve been told that if you live in Italy, you’d better like soccer.
I watched Thursday’s European championship semi-finals along with a contingency of German and Italian expats in a café in Sausalito. When Italy won I felt a warm, tingling feeling inside. I think it was pride.
Tomorrow is the meeting with destiny and Spain….
Forza Azzurri!
by Toni DeBella
Writer’s Block:
Posted in Culture, Expat in Italy, Italy, Living in Italy, Orvieto, Travel, writing, tagged Dictionary.com, how to overcome writer's block, Itlay, travel, writer's block, writing on June 24, 2012 | 19 Comments »
Dictionary.com defines writer’s block as follows:
“a usually temporary condition in which a writer finds it impossible to proceed with the writing of a novel, play, or other work.”
Bingo!
Now that I have a diagnosis and understand the symptoms, I’m ready to find a cure.
This paralyzing syndrome, as I discovered, is quite common among those who write on a regular basis. There are, naturally, different schools of thought on what brings about writer’s block in the first place. The most common notion seems to be that writer’s block is a vicious cycle generated from a fear that your work might not be good enough, followed by anxiety, which in turn stops the flow of your creative juices. Some feel it could also be caused by a lack of inspiration, while others think it happens as a result of the deficiency of interesting material.
Writer’s block steps heavily on your creativity hose, thereby preventing ideas and coherent thoughts from making it onto the page. An acute ailment, this disorder must be eradicated before it becomes a chronic condition. I am determined to snuff-out this insidious and confidence-blowing virus once and for all.
Below are suggestions and advice I’ve compiled from people in the know who’ve had writer’s block and found ways to overcome it. Here they are, from 1 to 10, in no particular order of importance:
#1 Take a break – walk away from the project and do something fun.
#2 Sit down and type ten of the worst pages of you’ve ever written.
#3 Turn off your computer screen and write as fast as you can. Edit later.
#4 Give your ideas time to gestate – write about a lot of different things.
#5 Seek therapy.
#6 Make a schedule and stick to it. Write everyday.
#7 Eat chocolate and make yourself a nice cup of tea.
#8 Have a change of scenery.
#9 Be authentic in your writing: if it’s not working it may be a “lie”.
#10 Return to Italy immediately for inspiration!
Thanks to fellow expat writers Debbie Oakes, Barbara Zaragoza, Giuliana Sica, Rhonda Walker, Mark Leslie and Lisa Chiodo for their contributions to this post – I couldn’t have done it without you. “Write on”!
by Toni DeBella
Writing a Blog about Italy: Where Strangers are Friends You Haven’t Met Yet.
Posted in Expat in Italy, Italy, Living in Italy, Orvieto, Travel, tagged An Italophile, beehive hotel, Cross-Polliante, Destination Umbria, facebook friends, Follow Your Nose, Living & Working a Dream Life in Europe, Renovating Italy, The Beehive Hotel & Cafe, travel, Writing a blog about Italy on June 15, 2012 | 23 Comments »






















